Tuesday, November 27, 2007

A Culture of Connection

November 25, 2007
George . Saylor

Transformers was the movie of the summer, but they didn’t even come close to Voltron. Most people have forgotten about Voltron- there’s no movie coming out celebrate their return. And it’s a shame because they were way better. There were five young men and women who came to planet Arus, searching the universe for habitable planets. Arus was held captive by the evil king Zarkon and his forces (evil always has a name friends). While they did not seek to be drawn into the fight, they simply couldn’t help it- they had to fight for the greater good for normal men and women. But even these young heroes were no match for Zarkon- until they discovered the five lions of Voltron.

The Voltron force would don their fighting machines- giant robots that would be transformed into Lions. And just when defeat seemed inevitable, one would cry out to the others, “Voltron Power!” At that moment the most amazing thing would happen, every week. You just saw it- the five individuals would come together to form one gigantic fighting machine. One would become the body, the others each of the limbs. Finally the head would emerge. Then together as a united force, Voltron would prevail. What they could not do as individuals they did as one body. The forces of evil were held at bay for another week.

I think a bible scholar must have been on the writing team of that show! That’s the church! That’s the Christian life! That’s Connections! Men and women coming together for the greater good; fighting evil in the world, seeking justice, mercy, goodness and love. People who have each been called to serve and share their unique gifts and abilities, and who have been given some amazing abilities. Yet people who can’t do it alone. Men and women who need each other, who need to come together, to work together, to each play our part on the team. Men and women who share their unique gifts to be used for the greater good. And when they do, man it’s awesome- it’s a force that can’t be stopped. For together, in the sharing of our gifts and resources, we are able to accomplish infinitely more than any one of us ever could on our own.

Most of you have heard the word “Synergy.” It’s one of the latest buzzwords, and it’s a great word. It’s this amazing reaction that occurs when 2 or more forces are combined and their effect together is more than they could ever have alone. But the effect isn’t merely one of addition, it’s exponential. For example, they say, if you take two horses that can each pull 1000 lbs and you put them together, you’d think they could pull 2000lbs, but somehow they end up pulling more like 2500lbs.

I’ve seen this happen in the church. I’ve seen this happen with Connections already- that the effect we can have isn’t just you and I adding our lives together- it’s more like multiplying our lives together. It’s seeing things happen that I couldn’t do alone, and you couldn’t do alone. Things that only happen when we connect.

This is the fifth and final movement of our series on Cultivating a Connecting Culture. This is our chance to start this church out right- to work the kinds of qualities into the soil that will nurture and grow our church. First we talked about trust- what would it look like for us, especially those of us who have been burned, to start trusting ourselves, to start trusting others, to start trusting God? Then we talked about acceptance. Because some of us that taken that leap of faith, that leap of trust with another person, and we’ve been rejected. So we looked into the bible and found a God who in Jesus Christ came to say I accept you, I love you, I’ll even die for you. With acceptance assured we looked to the truth, a culture of truth. Because the truth will set you free, but it’s really hard to be truthful with ourselves and others and God. But the only other option is denial, is lies, is living life with a mask. Once we embrace the truth of our lives we can start to experience healing. Now sometimes that healing comes to us physically in amazing ways. But what God offers all of us, each and every person, is a kind of inner healing. A healing that comes to our inner wounds when we simple admit I’m sick, I need a doctor, Jesus help me.

The last service was pretty heavy as we dealt with the healing, but we had to get into the hurt. But today is good. Today is about us getting connected. Today is about Voltron power! It’s about the amazing power of transformation that happens when we get connected to God through Jesus Christ, and through Jesus Christ in our lives, get connected with other people. And connected with other people the impact we can have in fighting evil, and promoting goodness and blessing in our world!

This is obviously what we are about here at connections. I hardly know where to begin. But let’s start by looking at why connection is such a need.

In his book, A Generation alone, author William Mahedy writes of his work with college students in today's culture. William observes that many students are showing the same symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder that war vets have suffered. He says that the culture has actually bred a PTSD generation due to the trauma of abandonment through divorce, psychological and sexual abuse as children, rape, overexposure to media violence and sexual exploitation. He can find no other explanation for...
“the widespread problems with stability, self-image, feelings of emptiness, depression, suicidal thinking, fear of the future, and lack of hope among the young.”
His conclusion,
“Abandonment is the fundamental mental component of the generational disorders…the young have been abandoned by parents, loved ones, teachers, political leaders, even the culture itself. No one is really there for them now…More than any of their predecessors, they have been since birth a generation alone.” p. 28-29


Into a postmodern PTSD generation, read these ancient words about the church...
The body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form one body. So it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit into one body — whether Jews or Greeks, slave or free — and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. Now the body is not made up of one part but of many.
If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. 1 Corinthians 12:12-14, 26-27

It’s really a simple image-tThere are many parts, but one body. Every part is equally valuable. We rejoice, and we suffer, together.

Paul says there are two main problems with life in this world- we are separated from God and separated from people. Then he tells us there is one solution to both- being IN Christ.

This is really the heart of Christianity. The one point that should be so abundantly clear, but is easily missed. It’s this simple little phrase that if we’d experience it, and understand it, would change everything thing- is in Christ. If you are just now considering Jesus, this whole church thing, then you need to understand this. IF you’ve been following Jesus your whole life, you need to understand this, and you may have never really heard it put this way before.

More than 100 times in the New Testament we are told to be in Christ. This is the heart of the synergy we can start to experience in the Christian life. What we see throughout the New Testament is this image, this picture, this phrase that Paul continually uses about being “In Christ.” Put your faith, your hope, you life in Christ. But Paul actual goes beyond this. Paul is talking about nothing less than having an encounter with Jesus where we find ourselves, our lives, swept up into the person of Jesus Christ. He is actually talking about us putting our lives in Jesus. And as we read through the NT we start to see this everywhere- you do’t just put yoru faith in Christ, it is in Christ that we find our faith! Your salvation is in Christ, your sanctification is in Christ, your hope is in Christ. If anyone is IN CHRIST he is a new creation, the old life has passed away and a new life has begun!

Here’s the thing- too often the church has tended to teach, or at least people have heard, that we are to invite Christ to be in our hearts, in our lives, in our church. WE teach our kids to invite Jesus into their hearts, which is good, and it’s Biblical, to welcome Christ into our lives. And this is about all a kid can understand; because they actually think the universe is centered on them- you gotta love it! But the witness of the Bible time and again is not just to invite Christ into our life- it is to put our lives in Christ. It’s not about asking Jesus to be a part of my life and my plans. It’s about getting into Jesus, and being a part of his life and his plans. Do you catch the subtle but crucial difference? It’s not about me. It’s about Jesus. It’s about being in Christ. Putting my life in his.

And when we experience this new life in Christ for ourselves, something else happens. When you and I both give our lives to Jesus, when you and I are both in Christ, we find ourselves in a new relationship, a new context with each other. We are no longer two different people with our own experience of Jesus living our own lives and trying to figure out what it means to be the church together- instead we are two individual people, with our own unique experience and relationship with Christ, but each of us have that experience in Christ together. Jesus hasn’t come so much to the solitary sphere of my life- we’ve come into the sphere of the life of Jesus, and whether we like it or not, if we both in Jesus, we are in Him together for life.

OK, now I’m blatantly going to try to impress you, or at least justify the time and money I’ve spent on my education- there is an ancient phrase for this- “Unio mystica cum Christo” (The mysterious union of the believer with Christ). Mystically we are swept up into the person of Jesus Christ.

That’s the connection we are all about here- Individuals, known and loved and called by God living in Jesus Christ. And in Jesus Christ, we look around and see all these other people we are now connected to. Connected in a mysterious union that actually transcends our petty differences. A connection, that as the bible says, makes men and women, young and old, rich and poor, black and white, Canadian and American one in Christ!

Is this totally nuts? I don’t mind if this I hard for you to accept right now, if you still have questions. In fact I think that would be really cool if you had some questions about this stuff. But does that basic model of connection, of connecting to God in a relationship at least makes sense- that that way of Christ, the way of God, is not ultimately about fitting God into our lives- but about getting our life in God through Jesus, in they mysterious union with Christ. That is real life is found, that is where salvation is found, that is where hope is found.

This may be the hardest part of the bible, of the Christian message, of following Christ for moderns- folks basically around 40 or older who grew up in a culture dominated by a modern scientific rationalism that says the experience and autonomy of the individual are supreme above all things. This surrender of ones self, of ones life, to someone else, to some things else. But conversely, this may be the most exciting part of the message of Jesus for folks 30 and under, post moderns struggling with the PTSD of being abandoned in the culture, this message that you can be a part of something bigger than yourself and your life.

When the bible talks about the church, it never talks bout buildings or denominations or one-hour worship services once a week, it talks about a mystical gathering of people. Transformed people that have become the temple of the Lord. The church is the people; the people are the church. And because all Christians are living in Christ, we become part of him. I love it that we don’t have a church building yet, but that we are already a church. That we are already a people coming together to worship God, to love and support one another, to share our love and support with the world!

Just like those crazy kids that came together in Voltron, we come together in Christ. Just like they each had a unique role to play, each one of has a part to play. Just like each of those kids was gifted and talented in jus the right way, so each and every one of you have been given just the right gifts and talents. Just like when one of those kids was hurt or suffered, so all of us suffer when one part suffers. Just like all of those kids rejoiced in Voltrons victory, so each of us rejoice in the victory of life in Christ!

After leading groups through ropes courses I would always end with the same prayer. I’d make everybody gather around in a circle and put his or her arms around each other. Everybody hated it. I hate it. Who wants to put their arms around folks, especially after you’ve been sweating and working all day. But I’d make them get close, make them embrace, make them look at their neighbor- in the eye, not at the ground- and say to them
“You are part of the body of Christ.”
Everybody loved that. Then we’d say,
“Christ loves you and gave his life for you.”
That was a little more intense. Then the final prayer,
“Without you Christ’s body is broken.”


As I look around this morning I see the body of Christ. As I look at you this morning I want you to know that you can be a part of the body of Christ. I want you to know that Christ loves you and gave his life for you. I want you to know that without you Christ’s body is broken.

We are getting ready to launch Connections into London and I want us to come onto the scene like Voltron! I want us to be a force for good, for justice, for mercy and compassion. I want us to be a force of people in Christ together, many parts, one body. I want the parts of our body to touch every area of London- every business, every school, every neighborhood, every street, every house, every life.

If we are going to have that kind of an impact we need a big body. How many parts? I don’t know. God will give us all the parts we need. 100 parts? God has already shown us we need more parts than that before we’ve even started weekly services. So what’s it’s gonna be- 200 parts? 300 hundred? 500? 1000 parts? Where do you think this could go? What part do you want to play? What role can you and only you play in this body?

Connections Community Church will never be any more, or any less, than the people. The people who get connecting to Christ, in Christ. The people who get connected to each other in Christ. The people, connected in Christ, who go our into the world to be his hands, his feet, his eyes and ears and voice and heart.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Cultivating a Connecting Culture: A Culture of Healing

November 11, 2007
Connections Community Church
by George J. Saylor

What I've Done, by Linkin Park
In this farewell
There's no blood
There's no alibi
'Cause I've drawn regret
From the truth
Of a thousand lies

So let mercy come
And wash away...
What I've done
I'll face myself
To cross out what I've become
Erase myself
And let go of what I've done

Put to rest
What you thought of me
While I clean this slate
With the hands
Of uncertainty

So let mercy come
And wash away...
What I've done
I'll face myself
To cross out what I've become
Erase myself
And let go of what I've done

For What I've done

I'll start again
And whatever pain may come
Today this ends
I'm forgiving what I've done

I'll face myself
To cross out what I've become
Erase myself
And let go of what I've done
What I've done
When we listen to the lyrics of our culture we find all the stuff we talk about here in a church. People asking questions, looking for answers. We hear people crying out for forgiveness, asking for mercy, for a new beginning. We hear the songs of the broken, and the longing for hope. Everyone’s broken, sings Boni Jovi, Everybody hurts…sometimes, sings REM, What I’ve done sings Lincoln Park. Everyone needs healing.

The bible is full of stories of great healing: from the Old Testament, to Jesus, to the birth of the church. God worked miracles in people’s lives. Jesus had a period in his ministry where he was literally like a superstar because of the miracles he performed- healing the sick and the lame, giving sight to the blind, casting our demons, raising the dead. The church saw miracles happen when people prayed in Jesus’ name and would lay hands on people. And the church today sees this happen. Healing is a part of the Christian life and experience. We have faith in a God that we believe still does miracles, still heals today. This might be the weirdest thing you’ve every heard. You already ready to write this off and walk away. And you know what- it is kinda weird, it’s kind of out of our control, and it’s kind of wonderful too.

In my former church we had a Wednesday noon communion and healing prayer service. We would read the bible, break bread together, then pray for the sick. We’d lay on hands and ask for miracles in Jesus’ name. Sometimes they happened. One man had a brain tumor almost the size of a baseball. The survival rate for his tumor after 5 years is 3 percent. Nearly five years later he is still on my list of prayer partners. Is it possible that God had nothing to do with it? Lot’s of stuff is possible. I really don’t see it that way. But to be honest, most of the time we didn’t get the answer we asked for. Cancer spread, people died. But that didn’t seem to deter or discourage our group.

What I want to get into today is a different kind of healing. Cultivating a healing culture that deals not just with the outward stuff, the stuff we know we should pray about- cancer, surgeries, etc, but the inward stuff. A culture of healing the brokenness in people’s lives.

Have you ever heard the expression,
The church is not a museum for saints, but a hospital for sinners.
I think the pastor of the church I grew up in must have said that every Sunday. But if the church was in fact a hospital for sinners, we were just a bunch of doctors and nurses waiting around, because few patients ever admitted themselves. For some reason this culture developed where everyone was walking around dressed in a white coat, a stethoscope around their neck and a clip board in hand. Oh wait, I mean they had on their Sunday best, a cross necklace and a bible in hand. Everyone else was sick, but not us.

Rarely would the culture be created to deal with people’s personal brokenness, addiction and pain. Pray for me, I’m off the wagon. Pray for me, I’m one step away from an affair. Pray for me, I’m in debt over my head and still sinking. Jesus demonstrated something different- Jesus helped people deal primarily with the inward stuff- the pain, the brokenness, the sin. Sometimes outward stuff happened too.

In Matthew 9:1-8 some men brought a paralytic to Jesus, and Jesus says, “Take heart son, your sins are forgiven.” What a let down? It was like watching Brittney Spears at the Grammy’s this year; it was like watching the Leaf’s play hockey- I knew I’d get you on that one! The crowd was like, OK, get ready for it, and…you’re forgiven! Do’h. That’s not what we wanted! The crowd wanted to see a miracle. And the religious types were incensed- who is this Jesus to just say your sins are forgiven?

Jesus knew exactly what was going on- what’s easier to say- your sins are forgiven, or get up and walk. One is easy to say, because nothing visible, nothing spectacular is going to happen. Another is spectacular to see, it does change a life, and it also pleases a crowd. So then, since you folks want a show, and since this man genuinely has a need- get up, take your mat, go home. And the man does it. The crowd goes wild, they got their show, and they were amazed- yeah Jesus, he’s our man, if he can’t do it no one can!

Then Jesus moves on. He sees a man named Matthew, who would later write this book we’re reading from, who was a tax collector. Jesus says follow me, and he does it. If you were here two services ago, when we talked about acceptance, you can read into this the radical, amazing, life changing acceptance of Jesus- calling this man, saying he is worthy to follow Jesus, the rabbi. Saying in effect, you will be the kind of man I am, you will do the kinds of things I do.

They go to Matthew’s house and have a party where all the sinners and tax-collectors join in. The religious types are all riled up about Jesus hanging out with the wrong types. It’s like they are saying Jesus, do you really believe this business that the church is supposed to be a hospital for sinners? And he says yep. He says hey, let me tell you what should be obvious to anyone-
It’s not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: I desire mercy, not sacrifice. For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” (Matthew 9:12-13).

Jesus came not to the righteous, but sinners. Not for healthy folks, but to the sick. That’s just great for them isn’t it, because you know, if you’re like me, you’re not really sick, right? You’re not really a sinner, right? We’re all righteous folks here. We all have our life together. We all have everything ordered and under control. Hey, we’re all in church!

It’s not like you ever lied to your parents, or to your spouse, or to your kids, or to your boss? No, only sick people do that. You never cheated on a test in school? You never stole anything as a kid, or as an adult, or on your tax return, right? Only sick people do that. You never lost your temper with your kids or your spouse? You never took out the stress of your day on the people who love you the most, have you? Only sick people do that. You never had an affair right, you never found yourself breaking the one promise you swore to never break or forsake, because all of us should be able to keep at least one promise that we make in this life. Only sick people do that, not us. You never looked a pornographic website, did you? You’d never objectify another woman, or a man? Only sick people would do that. You never did something you really regret, never made a really big mistake that kind of haunts you now, every day of your life? A regret that makes you feel shame down to the very core of your being? You never worry about the future, or wonder why you feel so bad about yourself, or struggle with an addiction or an eating disorder. Only sick people are dealing with those kinds of things. Right?

You know, if you’re sitting there saying “Yeah George, I’m right there with ya, I’ve never done anything like that, and I wouldn’t want to associate with anyone like that!” Then you really have no concept of sarcasm, and second, this really isn’t going to be the kind of church where you’ll feel connected.

Because the culture we are creating here isn’t going to be a church where all us self-righteous people get together and pat ourselves on the back and look down our noses at all those sinners and misfits and mistakes. No. We are going to be a church where all of us mistakes and misfits and sinners get down on our knees and look up to God and pray, “I’m sick, and I need help. I’m a sinner, and I need mercy. I’m broken, and I need to be healed.” And if that means you’re going to heal my on the outside, or heal the phsysical brokenness in my life, that’s awesome, that’s great God. But that’s not what I’m asking for today. Today, I’m asking for you to fix me on the inside. heal what’s really broken, heal my spirit God, heal my soul.

Many churches set themselves up to create the wrong culture of healing. From the beginning they set up two sorts of programs- one program for people with problems- AA groups, recovery groups, support groups. And another program for the normal people. And all us normal people are going to sing Kumba Ya, we’re going to tell of all the great things we’re doing and how perfect our lives are, then we’ll say a prayer and get together again next week. Then churches wonder why the groups for people with problems thrive, and the groups for the normal people struggle.

We’re going to have one kind of program here- one for us normal people who are really messed up people with problems and who are powerless over them and who are ready to trust God, to accept one another, to admit the truth of their situation in life, and who are ready to go to God and other people to find healing. Do you want to be a part of a church like that? Do you want to be in a group like that?

Can we take the first step of recovery right now? Can we just use the words of Jesus. (You don’t have to do this if you’re not ready, it really is OK, because this first step is HUGE, I mean it might be the biggest step in our life.) Can we just say, “I’m sick; I need a doctor; Jesus help me.” Can you say that- I’m sick. I need a doctor. Jesus help me. If you can say those words you taken the first three steps of recover: you are powerless of your situation in life; you need a help from the outside; you will turn your life and will over to the help of God as you understand God.

Now take two of these and call me in the morning! Hey, is that liberating? Is that freeing? Is that healing? To admit we can’t heal ourselves, we can’t save ourselves?

I was asked to conduct a funeral yesterday. It was a strange set of God circumstances that lead to a call to me. I got a call and was getting some basic information- the church where she’s a member is without a pastor, the first guy they asked hurt his back, so he asked me. He told me it was for a stillborn baby. I immediately felt over my head, so I said I know a minister who older, wiser and has lost a child himself- he would be better than me for this. So we called Dan and he agreed. But I couldn’t stop thinking about this woman. I called Dan that evening and said hey, if anything comes up, anything, just call and I’ll help out. So Friday morning I get the call- Dan woke up with the flu, so they went to the third string- me. (How’s that to make you feel really good about yourself). I’m not making this up- then he gave me the address- the woman lives three houses over from me- I stood their on the phone looking over at her house.

Margaret* immigrated here from Uganda 8 years ago. She has two beautiful children, Sharon and Wilson. She was only 23 weeks along in her pregnancy, but hadn’t been feeling well. She tried to go to work at St. Joe’s hospital, but found herself unable to manage. With the help of a friend and her husband, she eventually got to an emergency room. She ended up delivering at just before midnight. Orion Murry lived nearly five hours before passing away. 23 weeks old, and he still fought to live.

Where were you when you got the bad news? Where were you when your life changed forever? You were at work, you were on vacation, you were spending a quiet evening at home, and then it happened. Where were you when you got the phone call? Where were you when you found out you had cancer? Where were you when your spouse said they had found someone else, they were leaving? Where were you before you lost your job? Before you lost your health? Before you lost you child? Where were you when the world as you knew came crashing down and life has never been the same? And if it hasn’t come crashing down, if everything is just fine, that’s great. Praise God…but it’s coming. It’s coming, because in this world we will have trouble, we will have heartache, we will have pain, we will be broken.

But this is what I want to leave you with today- no pain is too much for God’s grace. The Apostle Paul learned to live with brokenness. He had a thorn in his side it says in 2 Corinthians. Three times he prayed for the thorn to be taken away, “Lord take this thorn away.” And God’s answer came back a resounding “No. No Paul, I’m not going to take the thorn away, and you will learn that my grace is sufficient for you.
My grace is sufficient for all your needs.

You’ve said that prayer. You’ve called out to God in your hour of need. Maybe it was a last ditch effort, a prayer of desperation crying out: “Lord heal my wound. And God answers, “No, I’m not going to heal you wound in the way that you think it needs to be healed, and then, only then, you will begin to learn that my grace is sufficient for all of your needs. Go ahead, fill in the blank of your wound, name your pain, name your need that is causing you to cry out to God. God, save my marriage, save my wife, save my husband, save my child, save my job, save me from this cancer. And God says, “I’m not going to save you marriage, I’m not going to save your spouse. I’m not going to save your child. I’m not going to save your job. But you will learn, my grace is sufficient for your loneliness, for your brokenness, for all your needs. My grace is sufficient.

“My child, I want you to know that my grace is sufficient. My grace is sufficient for the mother who holds her child’s lifeless body. My grace is sufficient for the child left an AIDS orphan. My grace is sufficient for the widower, my grace is sufficient for the man left to raise his kids alone. My grace is sufficient to help in your darkest night. My grace is sufficient for you, and all my children. My grace is sufficient."

(Amazing Grace, By John Newton)
* Margaret gave permission for her story to be told.